|F.alse E.vidence A.ppearing R.eal|
I saw this picture on facebook this morning that said in a 1000 words what 1000's of people feel like when you try to love them, show them some affection or just give them a hug.
Why are we afraid to let others so close? Is our arm gonna fall off if we extend it to hug another? No, Our arm wont fall off, but maybe some of the ice on that isolated heart will melt off.
Lets start protecting ourselves from our own fears, imagine than the idea of letting others love us and giving love in return. After all we're not all that different you know, we are more alike than you think. In fact pretty much most of us share the same story's of triumph, story's of loss and pain.
|Hey man I'm just trying to give you a bear hug|
It only feels weird at first, you might not be used to it and sometimes when we aren't used to something we think it is not for us. Truth is were not getting any younger. I don't know about you but I want to try everything I can while I am here. How do I really know what I like if I haven't tried it all?
I give good hugs, if you need one let me know!